Why Women with Autism Are Often Overlooked—and How Brightstone Helps

Autism doesn't look the same for everyone—and that’s especially true for women. While autism occurs at similar rates across genders, research shows that women are up to three times less likely to be diagnosed than men (Loomes et al., 2017). Why? Because the diagnostic criteria have long been based on how autism typically presents in boys.

Many autistic women become experts at masking—hiding their symptoms by mimicking social behavior, forcing eye contact, or staying silent in overwhelming situations. It can look like they're “just shy” or “anxious,” leading to misdiagnoses or being completely overlooked. This delay can cause years of confusion, burnout, and missed support.

At Brightstone, we know the power of being seen and understood.

Our program is designed to support neurodivergent young adults—including those who may not have a formal diagnosis but feel like they’ve always experienced the world a little differently. For women, that means creating a space where masking isn’t necessary, authenticity is encouraged, and support is personalized. We offer mentorship, social-emotional learning, and life skills coaching through a neurodiversity-affirming lens.

Because every young adult deserves to be understood—not overlooked.